February 17
The highlight of the day was finally meeting my remaining Saalis, Rama and Uma. After a harrowing, long and delayed overnight train ride from Hyderabad, they made the 45 minute trip from their parents house to the Chola to visit me. Again, I cannot express my appreciation for the warmth and graciousness I was shown. Not to mention yet another gift; a very nice navy blue polo.
The rest of the day was spent running around to shops and tailors to get stuff for the wedding. We went to a tailors called the Raymond Store. Here I was fitted for a matrimonial Kurta set. Not overly traditional for a South Indian wedding, but a compromise made for my benefit. We’re not sure 100% if it’s going to be pajama or suit style… Geetha and I were both a little confused by the total event… I guess we’ll know when I go for my trial fitting today. Never had anything custom tailored before, that aspect of it I could really get used to!
After that adventure we went to several Jewelry stores looking for a wedding band for me. Unfortunately Geetha has her sights set on platinum, and although there were ample selections at the stores, none of the styles we liked had sizes to fit me. Given that the exchanging of rings is not part of the South Indian wedding ceremony, we opted to hold of until we return to the States. Too bad because there is would be a remarkable savings if we could find one here.
Next stop: Nalli Sari store. Here we picked up wedding gift Saris for the Grandmothers, Aunt, Amma, as well as a dhoti for Appa.
All and all a busy day, even if this entry doesn’t reflect it.